Making Time for Rest: Prioritizing Sleep for Women

A tired woman

We women are remarkable beings, effortlessly balancing work, family, and social lives, and all the responsibilities that come with them. But in the whirlwind of our daily lives, one essential element often takes a backseat: rest.  A recent poll reveals a persistent gender gap in sleep quality, with 36% of women compared to 48% of men reporting adequate sleep. Alarmingly, only 27% of younger women report getting enough rest, highlighting a significant divide compared to other age and gender demographics.

Amidst all the hustle and bustle, we tend to forget that our own well-being should be a priority too. Self-care is critical to our overall health and happiness.

At the heart of it all lies a simple truth: we can't pour from an empty cup. Prioritizing sleep and mental health begin with recognizing the unique challenges we face in obtaining the rest we need and nurturing our mental well-being.

Challenges in Prioritizing Rest

In our quest to prioritize rest, women encounter numerous challenges.

Hormonal Fluctuations: Hormonal levels can significantly impact sleep. Hormonal fluctuations throughout menstrual cycles, pregnancy, postpartum periods, and menopause can disrupt sleep patterns and mental well-being. Research has shown that women's hormones, emotions, and sleep are intricately intertwined. During menstruation, these connections can become particularly evident, with many women reporting more awakenings at night and poorer sleep quality. Additionally, they may experience heightened irritability or frustration, with fewer moments of calmness and happiness. It's like a perfect storm affecting both sleep and mood.

Social and cultural expectations also play a pivotal role. Women often find themselves juggling multiple roles and responsibilities, from caregiving to professional work. Balancing these demands while prioritizing self-care can feel overwhelming, especially when societal pressures compel women to prioritize others' needs over their own. This pressure can lead to neglect of sleep and mental health. The sheer mental load that women carry can contribute to sleep challenges, with managing household tasks, organizing family schedules, and remembering details adding significant mental strain, even during designated rest times.

Navigating Sleep Architecture: Sleep isn't a one-size-fits-all experience. For women, falling asleep and staying asleep can sometimes be a bit trickier. Studies show that women tend to take longer to fall asleep compared to men and may require a bit more shut-eye each night. Furthermore, women are 40% more likely than men to experience insomnia at some point in their lives. When combined with the lack of essential workplace support, these challenges can compound. Limited childcare options and inflexible schedules force women to balance work demands with personal needs outside of work hours. This constant pressure disrupts sleep patterns and contributes to stress and exhaustion. Additionally, inadequate leave policies offer little opportunity for women to address health concerns or unexpected situations that can further impact sleep quality.

Practicing Sleep Hygiene: Sleep isn't merely about getting some shut-eye—it's a vital biological process where our bodies recharge, repair themselves, and consolidate memories. During sleep, our brains release hormones that regulate mood, including serotonin, which helps us feel happy and calm. When we're sleep-deprived, these hormones get thrown out of balance, leaving us susceptible to anxiety, depression, and difficulty focusing.

Despite its importance, achieving quality rest can often feel like an elusive goal. However, we can enhance our sleep quality by establishing solid sleep habits, commonly referred to as sleep hygiene. The good news is we can reclaim our right to rest.

Tips to get some quality ZZZZ:

Craft a Relaxing Bedtime Routine: Dimming the lights and powering down electronics at least an hour before bed are essential steps. The blue light emitted from screens, such as phones, laptops, and tablets, disrupts your body's production of melatonin, a hormone essential for sleep. Instead, opt for relaxing activities like reading a book or listening to calming music. If screen use is unavoidable, consider using blue light filter glasses or apps that adjust screen settings in the evening.

A writing pad, tea and cookie by the bedside

Engage in screen-free activities like reading a book, taking a warm bath with Epsom salts and lavender essential oil, or practicing gentle yoga stretches. A cup of herbal tea can also serve as a soothing option. Enhance your bedroom ambiance with soft music or nature sounds, and remember to personalize your routine to suit your preferences. The goal is to find activities that help you unwind and signal to your body that it's time to rest

Optimize Your Sleep Environment: Your bedroom should be a sleep haven. Ensure it's clean and cool (around 60°F-67°F) – our bodies naturally cool down as we fall asleep. Invest in blackout curtains to block out any light pollution, and earplugs can be a lifesaver if you have a noisy partner or neighborhood.

Be Your Own Sleep Advocate: Take charge of your sleep by setting boundaries and prioritizing rest. This could involve saying no to extra work requests, delegating tasks at home, or politely declining late-night social events. Consistency is crucial for regulating your body's natural sleep-wake cycle, or circadian rhythm. Aim to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, including weekends. This helps train your body to anticipate sleep and promotes easier transitions into restorative rest.

The text "It's ok to say no" with a pen by the side

Listening to our body: Our bodies are remarkable communicators, subtly signaling our sleep needs. Early evening tiredness indicates that our body is winding down, signaling a good time to begin the bedtime routine. Similarly, energy dips throughout the day, such as a midday slump, can serve as the perfect window for a power nap. Yawns, heavy eyelids, and foggy thinking are all indicators of fatigue that shouldn't be ignored. Additionally, it's essential to pay attention to how your menstrual cycle impacts your sleep patterns. Adjust your sleep routine and self-care practices accordingly to accommodate changes in energy levels, mood, and sleep quality throughout the month.

Aligning with our Rhythm: Ideally, our sleep schedule should sync with our circadian rhythm, our body's natural 24-hour sleep-wake cycle. Women often experience a rise in  the sleep hormone melatonin earlier than men, making them more suited to earlier bedtimes. However, societal pressures and home responsibilities can prevent us from sleeping when our bodies naturally wind down. Staying up late can disrupt the circadian rhythm and contribute to insomnia. We should actively prioritize sleep by advocating for an earlier bedtime that aligns with our natural sleepiness cues.

Beware of Sleep Disruptors: Limiting caffeine and alcohol, especially in the hours before bedtime, can promote better sleep. Aim for at least 30 minutes of daily exercise, preferably earlier in the day, but avoid strenuous activity close to bedtime. The reason is because exercise acts as a short-term stimulant which may interfere with our bodies’ ability to rest. Moreover, engaging in moderate aerobic exercise boosts the quantity of the slow wave sleep that you experience. Slow wave sleep is a phase of sleep that facilitates deep rest, allowing both the brain and body to recharge and regenerate.

Taming To-Do Lists and Worries: Taming your to-do list and worries before bed can make unwinding easier. Take time to jot down your concerns, whether through journaling or keeping a worry list. This practice can clear your mind and prevent anxieties from disrupting your sleep. Additionally, keeping a planner and outlining your tasks for the next day can help you feel more prepared and organized, reducing pre-sleep anxiety. Knowing what needs to be done allows you to relax and prepare for a restful night.

Seek Support: Don't hesitate to seek help from a healthcare professional if you're experiencing persistent sleep issues. They can rule out any underlying medical conditions and provide personalized guidance and support.

A well rested woman

In a world where women often put the needs of others before their own, prioritizing rest becomes an act of self-love and empowerment. By recognizing and addressing the unique challenges we face in obtaining quality sleep and nurturing our mental well-being, we take a crucial step towards reclaiming control over our health and happiness. Also, if you are looking for resources, don't forget to explore Sukhi's extensive collection of sleep-related content to unlock the secrets to a more rejuvenating night's sleep. Sukhi excels particularly in its comprehensive coverage of sleep, offering expert-led content and guidance to assist users in optimizing their sleep habits for enhanced well-being.

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2024Viji KrishnanSleep, Women Wellbeing, Mental HealthComment